There’s no doubt that relocating can be stressful. Buying a new home is always exciting, but each move comes with its own set of unique circumstances. Whether you’re leaving one community for another, moving across country, or just relocating neighborhoods, leaving established relationships in order to dive into new ones is never an easy thing.

As many of us know from first hand experience, moving to Los Alamos has its own set of challenges. But the good news is that there are so very many wonderful resources and opportunities here in the city on the hill. So, if you’re looking for a way to connect with new people and establish yourself in this wonderful community of Los Alamos, prepare to take notes.

For Families & Especially Mothers

If you’ve got kids of any age, the best way to meet new friends is to help your kiddos settle into a new friend group of their own. The first stop in helping your kids find a group is to check out the Family YMCA of Los Alamos. You can see a short brochure of their offerings here. With child care available to younger kids while their parents enjoy an exercise class, the YMCA is a wonderful resource for new families in Los Alamos. Sign your kids up for a team sport, volunteer, and get involved! This can be the first step in meeting new families that share your interests and goals.

And if you’re a mother of a young child, don’t feel as though you’re here all by yourself! Make some time and reach out! Go to a yoga class. Take advantage of the child watch at the Family Y and do something for yourself. Nothing could be more important for you, your kiddo, and your family!

In the past, I’ve spoken about the Family Strengths Network. But I have to say that as a resource for new and existing families in our community, they really know how to offer support! If you visit their website at LAFSN.org, you’ll find a list of support groups, classes, field trips, and activities for everyone. There’s no better way to find people you have things in common with than to take a class or attend a field trip or discussion group. These are perfect places to strike up a conversation and make new friends!

For Everyone

If you’re a happy couple or even a happy single, don’t worry! There are plenty of places for you to find friends and like minded people to just hang out with. The key is to get involved. Remember the Scooby Doo cartoons? The theme song lyrics are, “Come on get involved, there’s a mystery to solve.” I challenge anyone to get out and get involved. Sometimes it becomes an easy habit to sit in your new place and tell yourself you don’t know anybody. It might be true. But you will never know anyone until you get out and get involved!

The Family Y – While you might not need child watch services, the YMCA is a fantastic place to take a yoga class, or use the climbing wall. The listing of available classes has some truly unique opportunities.

FLACL – Or, perhaps you’re more of a bookworm. Volunteer with the Friends of the Library here in Los Alamos and meet some fellow bibliophiles. Find more information about that wonderful group of people here. They collect, catalog, and maintain the Friends of the Library just inside the Mesa Public Library building and do other volunteer work with our county libraries as well as other public service library organizations.

Los Alamos Sportsmen’s Club – Are you an outdoor type who likes to hunt? What about target shooting? Would it interest you to know that one of the top Junior Level Shotgun Shooting teams is located right here in Los Alamos? The Sportsmen’s Club offers training classes for novice and beginner shooters of all ages whether your interest is in sporting clays or target shooting with a pistol or a rifle. Members in the club are active and come from every walk of life. Check out their website for more information.

No matter if you like exercise, books, or target shooting and outdoor pursuits, there is an organization for you in Los Alamos. I hope that you’ve gotten some good ideas on ways to get involved here in Los Alamos. If you’re new to our community, we welcome you! If you’ve been here for years, hopefully you’ve read about an organization that appeals to you. And if you’re ready to join our community here in Los Alamos, please give me a call. I’d love to talk to you!